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The Great Judge liberate me from all of "Horribly, dreadfully, disgustingly & dangerous circumstances"

By: Mohammad Wahid Abdullah Khan

The morning of the 14th April 2013, I was writing my research report as my “Adviser and Doctoral committees” direction in a small room of my flat which most of the time I used as a personal office, after my workplace, all of a sudden, I came to remembered unexpected situation which turn up-side down my physical health too Decrease my tolerance & rational stage for decision making besides incapable to operate my business smoothly,

"Oh, I recognized it is real that I leave from the horribly, dreadfully, & dangerous circumstances moreover characterless, selfish Psychological & personality disorder stupid one I felt myself so happy, amazing. Great - and I am so glad!, Cheerful, & joyful.

"Ah, that reminds me - Before my few years ago this day (14th April) someone entered my address through my family with a lot of suffering circumstances that totally - Horribly, dreadfully, disgustingly & dangerous circumstances, those cruel, nasty suffering circumstances generated by a cheater, characterless, selfish Psychological & personality disorder individual & her uncultured, shameless, stupid family members encourage & promote her for create like this situation, for their long Term plan, ground of greedy insatiable & hungry they was not humiliated, not touched; but said anything’s smoothly without any hesitations,

Oh, Allah the Great Judge, I believe on that then put myself on his judgment, he made the humans as his great creation, I had a well-built confident that Allah will not tolerate on the sufferings of person he likes anyone, at last the all mighty “Allah” liberate me from all of the uncultured, disgusting characterless, selfish and Nanty’s persons ugly plan & against the injustice which has been done with me."

Words really failed to expressed my happiness, excited, thrilled, overjoyed, & I would like to say “Alhamdulillah” thanks all mighty Allah for his Great Judge, I reflect on I am came back from the hell or dungeon like as 100 years later, I think we have that rock hard confidence on “Allah”,

Dear all, this is not my advice I just expressed my experienced that I learned from “approvable mentally & physically abnormal female. My judgment – make a Love, Affair relation:


Pretty women or ugly

Ones. Short ones or tall ones.

Blondes or brunettes>

Just, whatever you do

Don’t Love relationship or marry a woman > without judge her family component, environment & her parent, sister and nearest relative whose obstruct her issue,

Why? Because family background is most important part a human being As children grow up, parents have to find realistic ways in order to help their children, give advice them, punish them, lead them to success, and to teach them. Otherwise sometimes children behave inappropriately. For example - they learn to say offensive words and they show no respect to their relatives.

I feel parents in these cases should punish their children in a logical way. Children must know those kinds of attitudes are not good at all, however, sometimes parents never teach children who are growing up how to behave. These children think the way they behave is completely correct. But this not correct base on society, regally, & personal life, this is for parents erroneous incapable to proper teach their children furthermore the encourage children odd activities, in the point of love, I think parents truthfully love Children, parents should be proper teach them if necessary punish them for Children greater future, Otherwise these children trimmings up being bad citizens, bad parents, and bad workers. Society can blame their parents for murders, rapes, eliminations, child abuse cases, uncultured, and all kinds of crimes we can see everyday on TV news and in newspapers.

I think the different societies all over the world should look for better methods to bring up their children. Or else, nobody will be able to live near his neighbors in the near future. When a daughter become a mature without a doubt the mother’s role may be even greater: while the children are young they are very close to her and dependent upon her, and they spend more time with her than with anyone else he may even be unaware that she is serving as a role model in her behavior, and her attitudes. Every mother should be conscious of her role and do her best to make it beneficial for the development of her children as they set out on the journey of life.


It is 100% correct. Parents should be able to direct their children in the bearing of their future. This is as the parents have given birth to the child and have to move up them up. Without the parents the child wouldn't flat be alive. It is vital for parents to have a say in their child's future or the child could become disobedient and forget their parents. They'll start to think that their parents don't even have any "power" over them. The child will become disfigured and disrespectful. Also, the parents have also gone through the same pictures, if not very similar pictures, during their lives. They'll be able to guid their family this way.

If your child has been diagnosed with oppositional defiant disorder (ODD), this development may sound much too recognizable.  According to the Diagnostics and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, oppositional defiant disorder can cause experimental destruction in community, educational, or occupational functioning, and is characterized by a recurrent model of negativistic, defiant, disobedient and unsympathetic behavior en route for authority a figure which persists for a period of at least six months.

As children pass during many developmental arenas as they mature,   it is significant to recognize the disparity between normal childhood attempts to defy influence and indications of full-blown oppositional defiant disorder.  Come into view ambitious to crush adults, is relentless in her detection of proving adults to be incorrect, stupid, or both, and her feelings rotate around defeating anyone’s attempt to exercise authority over her.   She typically turns every interaction with adults into win/lose situations and is vigorously intent on winning.

Once marital and family issues are addressed, parents can begin to train both themselves and their child.  If Molly’s mother continues to respond to her argumentative behavior as she always has, will continue to tune her out, escalate the arguments, and push mom’s buttons. Most adults engage in an argument with concern for the outcome.  The adult’s goal in an argument is to come to a resolution,

Not happy conclusions, especially given that many men, particularly successful men, are attracted to women with similar goals and aspirations. And why not? After all, your typical career girl is well-educated, ambitious, informed and engaged. All seemingly good things, right? Sure…at least until you get married. Then, to put it bluntly, the more successful she is the more likely she is to grow dissatisfied with you. Sound familiar?

Selfishness as a psychological explanation is typically seen as self-involved manners and performance where there is little or no sympathy for others. Self-absorbed cutting institutes early in life to kids whose parents are unconfident, offensive, addictive or have vain models themselves.

Self-absorbed damage ensues to the child when his or her affecting needs are not met. The selfish parent has unanswered needs for concentration and caretaking because his or her needs were not met in their early life. Ignore, physical, mental abuse, creature disfigured and not given construction and limits create the hurtful. Self-absorption can be an inflated ego sub part or the trait can take over the individuality. Self-absorbed manners and activities come from the self barricade that meaning as burn screens to hide the deep embarrassment and ruptures that came from being hurt psychologically or actually as a child.

The child who was not permissible to have restrictions becomes vigorously and developmentally arrested at this stage with viewpoint of not being safe in the world and being unworthy and unlovable. Thus the Shadow is born with the defenses and negative core beliefs becoming set in the child's repertoire. The child carries this primitive, self-defense center of fear even into maturity. This is called the "Core Script" or Core Identity, which is like a big lens of awareness by which the world is viewed. The defenses stay behind lurking in the comatose mind ready to be called into action at any likeness of threat.

Self-absorption is a mental condition definite as a fascination with the self. Even as not all forms of self-love or self-interest are unhelpful, extreme cases can be very harmful and may be diagnosed as narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). In these occurrences, the confusion is described by a require of sympathy for others, aggressive or unhelpful tendency, and an obligation to make happy personal needs all other targets. Inhabitants distress from NPD tend to have complicatedness establishing or maintaining friendships, close family relationships, and even careers. About 1% of people have this condition, and up to 3/4 of those diagnosed with it is chap


Psychiatric therapy is repeatedly suggested as the first procession of treatment for this stipulation. “Cognitive behavioral” analysis, which focuses on recognizing and changing harmful behavioral prototypes, can moreover be very cooperative in creating a recovered way of life. Matrimony or relations treatment is commonly recommended after Self-mania is disorderly own interaction. How successful these handlings are habitually depends on how harsh the circumstance is. Whereas completely defeating narcissistic urges may not always be possible, psychotherapy creates an open forum to discuss connected issues and administer the tribulations caused by this circumstance.

I have been in a affiliation with a narcissist for a year, she lied and embittered me all the time, She stole from my bag and always denied this. She loves being admired by men and tries to be a smooth talker with everyone. She loves putting his profile pictures on the internet and craves women's comments. I see he makes random friends on social networking sites and wants to use people to make his life. Narcissists are immorality person who will do anything to get what they want. I hate them,

Below is some articulate few classification Psychological disorder, below” Psychological disorder” commonly suffering my main character, she & her all Families member are suffering below one or another even each every disorders.

(01).depressive disorders - temperament disorders in which depression is alone by overexcited or hippomanic affairs.

(2). Developmental coordination disorder - tricky or late progress of unpleasant and in good health cruise dexterity skills, not due to a neurological disorder or to universal mental retardation, consequential in the manifestation of ungainliness.

(3) Disruptive behavior disorders - a faction of mental disorders of children and teenagers consisting of behavior that breaks societal medians and is troublesome.

(03)Dissociative disorders - mental disorders differentiated by unexpected, impermanent modifications in uniqueness, remembrance, or awareness, separating usually incorporated elements of one's behavior from one's overriding distinctiveness.

(05).Dissociative identity disorder - a Dissociative disorder characterized by the continuation in an individual of two or more distinct individualities, with at least two of the personalities controlling the patient's behavior in turns. The host individualities habitually is totally unacquainted of the alternate individualities; alternate personalities may or may not have wakefulness of the others.

(06). Dysthymic disorder-  a mood disorder characterized by miserable feeling, loss of interest or pleasure in one's usual activities, and other symptoms typical of gloominess but treatment to be longer in extent and less severe than in major depressive confusion.

(07). Eating disorder- anomalous nourishing behavior connected with psychosomatic issues, as well as anorexia nervosa, bulimia nervosa, pica, and cogitation disorder.

(08). expressive language disorder -  a communication disorder occurring in children and characterized by problems with the expression of language, either oral or signed.

(09).Factitious disorder - a mental disorder distinguishes by recurring, deliberate simulation of physical or psychological cryptogram and indications of sickness for no obvious reason other than achieving treatment.

(10). Factitious disorder by proxy - a form of factitious disorder in which one human being (typically a look after) deliberately manufactures or encourages animal (Munchausen’s disease by substitute) or psychosomatic disorders in another person under their mind (usually their child) and subjects that person to unnecessary indicative measures or behavior, devoid of any peripheral motivations for the behavior.

(11) An unfaithful spouse keeps an ex-lover as a friend - unfaithfulness is a vast hurdle for a nuptial to trounce, but just conclusion the affair is not sufficient, says Dr. Kaye. For matrimony to fully get past one spouse treachery, the unfaithful half of the couple cannot maintain a “friendship” with the former lover. No matter what he or she says about the incorruptibility of such a relationship, “nothing good can come out of it,”

(12) Never say, "I'm sorry - : All marriages have disagreement. The refusal to apologize is a rapid way to destroy yours. While conflict is not a pleasant thing, growth and closeness can increase as conflict is resolved. Most of the wife, an admission of guilt means she has enthused forward, through the conflict and is now seeking peace

Below are some Quotes regarding Selflessness of some author & psychologist,

Gretchen Rubin - The belief that unhappiness is selfless and happiness is selfish is misguided. It's more selfless to act happy. It takes energy, generosity, and discipline to be unfailingly lighthearted, yet everyone takes the happy person for granted. No one is careful of his feelings or tries to keep his spirits high. He seems self-sufficient; he becomes a cushion for others. And because happiness seems unforced, that person usually gets no credit.”

Robert A. Heinlein - Love" is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...Jealousy is a disease, love is a healthy condition. The immature mind often mistakes one for the other, or assumes that the greater the love, the greater the jealousy”

C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves - The event of declining in love is of such a nature that we are right to reject as intolerable the idea that it should be transitory. In one high bound it has overleaped the massive of our selfhood; it has made appetite itself altruistic, tossed personal happiness aside as a triviality and planted the interests of another in the centre of our being. Spontaneously and without effort we have fulfilled the law (towards one person) by loving our neighbors as ourselves. It is an image, a foretaste, of what we must become to all if Love Himself rules in us without a rival. It is even (well used) a preparation for that.”

Note: The purpose of this share is to alert. It is not estimated to give psychological therapy. Whenever there is apprehension about physical or Emotional illness, a qualified professional should be consulted.

About the Author

Mohammad Wahid Abdullah Khan (MBA, CPFA, CPIA, CFC)

Dhaka, Bangladesh

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MOHAMMAD WAHID ABDULLAH KHAN Dhaka, Bangladesh, is a PhD Candidate in "Criminal Psychology" as well he is “freelance Author, online columnists, Human psychoanalyst, industrial psychotherapist, Certified Financial Consultant, & Certified Forensic Accountant, too dynamic entrepreneur, utilize creativity leadership and teamwork to design and execute solutions that creates customer value.

Moreover Mr. Khan is CEO & Certified Consultant of” Wahid & co, Wak Business Solutions, Wak Business Support, “Wam Associates” & leader of the” Wahid Consulting Group”; Prior to consultancy Mr. Wahid has fulfilled more than 14 (fourteen) years working in various fields of Business like - Accounts, Finance, Auditing (Internal & External Audit), Project budgeting and Project costing related positions in some of the largest group & join venture companies in Bangladesh. Which experience encouraged him to work as a “professional consultant” from a few years,

Mr. Khan is realistic and implements his assignment within the bounds, objectives and capabilities of the organization. His extraordinary quick understanding of strategic options helps find direction and supports management in decision making. He has a “doer” attitude and gets things done on the technical and functional side. As a “Consultant”

Mr. Wahid believe that his study & physiological motivation is very strong, as well my confident level is high & my quantitative skills are well-built also he is  crystal clear about my every single goal which helped me to be a very tough contestant “Consultant” in the business consultant arena


Mr. Khan’s specializations and vast professional Expertise in • Investigations, both criminal and civil, • Giving oral evidence in court, •Disputes between partners, •Bankruptcy, •General
Commercial legal action, •Financial Risk Assessment, •Financial analysis, •Project Cost Analysis. •Auditing (Internal & External Audit), •Project budgeting and project costing of Financial •Accounts. Personnel management selections & Trainings Strategic planning

Professional Membership:

• Member – Institute of Management Consultants Bangladesh (IMCB)

• Member - Association of Proposal Management Professionals® (APMP®)

• Member - Next level Purchasing Association.

• Member- The Chartered Institute of Personnel and Development (CIPD)

• Member -The Professional Risk manager’s international Association (PRMIA)

• Member - The International Association of Risk and Compliance Professionals (IARCP)

• Individual Member: LicenseLogic LLC

• Affiliate Member- Global Association of Risk Professional (GARP)

• Lifetime Member - Dragon fire martial arts association “International” (DFMAA)

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